Many women (and men) experience psychological effects after an abortion. They may have feelings of sadness, grief, guilt, or loss. These can show up weeks, months, or even years after an abortion. This is called Post-Abortion Stress (PAS).

How do I know I need help?

Self-Assessment:

1. How have you changed since the abortion?
2. Do you struggle in relationship since the abortion?
3. Has your relationship with God changed since the abortion?
4. Do you hide your abortion or your feelings about it?
5. If someone you knew was considering an abortion, what woould you tell her about your experience?
6. Did someone pressure you to have the abortion?
7. Are you fighting feelings of depression or a deep sense of sorrow and shame?
8. Are you having difficulty keeping your emotions (anger, fear, grief) in control?

Symptoms of Post Abortion Stress Include:

• Thoughts of suicide or suicide attempts

• Guilt/shame - trying to bury the truth

• Emotional numbness – withdrawing

• Participating in high risk behaviors (alcohol/drug abuse, eating disorders, promiscuity)

• Avoiding baby reminders or failing to bond with subsequent children

• Feeling all alone and helpless

• Trying to be 'supermom'

• Nightmares, fears, inability to make decisions

Crossroads Pregnancy Center offers assistance  and support groups that include a Bible study, “Forgiven and Set Free”, to help you heal from the effects of abortion. Post Abortion Counseling and Education (PACE) groups meet  in a confidential, safe, and private setting. Call now for more information or to sign up for the next group.